Thanks Jimbo, yeah tryed the master socket allready, and everything possible at my end.
I was ordering a new phone line from BT, but looking at the traceroutes I think I will cancel it and switch ISP first.
I sent Eclipse a rage email a few days ago, no reply yet should have been more polite

Looking at some review sites, Eclipse is now one of the worst

With people reporting similar issues to me. Guess I got complacent.